New year, real change
As January draws to a close, many of us will be taking stock of the New Year’s resolutions we set at the start of the month. Whether that’s finding a new job, signing up for the course you’ve always wanted to take, or simply spending more time in nature, we hope you’re making progress towards your goals.
Of course, it’s never going to be a linear process. Inevitably, there will be setbacks, moments of frustration and doubt. But with a bit of perseverance (and some self-kindness on the tougher days), we can all keep moving in the right direction.
Hawa dreamed of being a hairdresser. Now she’s the proud owner of her own salon.
Helping the young mothers in our project to set positive life goals is a key part of what we do, not just in January but throughout the year.
To start with, we work alongside each of them to choose between two learning pathways - formal education or vocational training - all with the end goal of empowering them with the knowledge and tools they need to earn a decent income and become financially independent.
We also work with them to identify other areas of support, from rebuilding relationships that have broken down to gaining new confidence and building a support network.
And that support is vital, because many young mothers join our project at one of the lowest points in their lives. A significant percentage have been forced to leave the family home due to pregnancy and pushed out of education. Living in acute poverty, most have little means of earning an income. Labelled ‘drop-outs’ by their community, many have cripplingly low confidence.
Young mother Jami (left), with our social worker Andreta. Today Jami is a paid member of our team.
That’s where our team comes in. Our brilliant local social workers and mentors are central to helping young mothers believe in themselves again and overcome the complex barriers they often face as they work towards their goals. From regular one-to-one mentoring sessions and check-ins at their places of study to weekly group life skills sessions, they are there throughout each young mother’s journey on the project, supporting her to move forward with confidence and drive. It really does take a village.
Millicinet is one of the many young mothers to have recently graduated from our project. When our social worker, Andreta, first met her in 2022, she was withdrawn and overwhelmed. ‘She couldn’t even talk,’ recalls Andreta. She was one of the biggest introverts and could barely talk. She was really frustrated.’
Today, Millicent is a different person. She completed an 18-month hospitality and catering course with our project and quickly found work at a busy local hotel. She serves drinks at the poolside bar, a lively spot in town where music plays, and people come to relax on the weekend. ‘I’m now a popular girl,’ she says, smiling.’ I’m confident, and I love my work’
Millicent earns a steady income and often receives tips, food, and drinks from satisfied customers. She’s proud of the independence she’s built. ‘It’s changed me a lot,’ she says. ‘I have achieved my dreams.’
Millicent at work. She says her job and steady income have made her a ‘better mum.’
Can you help more young mothers to dream again?
In 2026, we will work with approximately 200 young mothers as they set and work towards their goals and dreams. We also have another big ambition - to build a permanent home for the Community Girls Network. We look forward to sharing more details of this capital appeal over the coming months.
We’d love for you to join us in helping us to achieve these ambitions. There are a few ways you can get involved, including:
Become an AdAmi Padi: by becoming a regular giver, you’ll help young mothers rebuild their lives throughout the year. If you’re already a padi - thank you!
Make a one-off donation: if you’d prefer to make a one-time donation, you can do so here.
Fundraise or volunteer for us: we’re always looking to build our supporter and volunteer base. Please get in touch if you’d like to discuss more!
Here’s to goals that last beyond January - thank you for helping young mothers build the foundations to achieve them.
Kirsty and the AdAmi team x
